Relationship · Workbook · Shipping 2026
Tend: Before
the Wedding
Five conversations before you say I do.
A premarital workbook for engaged couples — and the pastors who walk alongside them. Built from attachment research and twelve years in pastoral counseling.
The workbook
Most premarital work is either a checklist or a crisis intervention. This is neither. It’s five conversations that go deep enough to actually matter — about conflict, about family of origin, about money, about faith, about what you want your home to feel like.
Built from attachment theory and twelve years walking alongside couples as a pastor. Designed to be used with or without a counselor.
The print version ships at The Aisle expo in October 2026. The PDF is free with email signup.
Engaged couples. Pastors doing premarital counseling.
Print workbook + PDF. Available at theaisle.app/workbook.
Shipping Aug 2026 · Print hand-off at The Aisle expo Oct 18.
Part of the Tend series — workbook, companion book, and eventual AI coaching app.
The author
Matt Headley
Nineteen years in pastoral ministry. Officiated weddings and funerals. Jacksonville, Alabama.